Principles
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THE DOORWAY is founded on six
principles, which are applied and integrated into every
aspect of the community environment.
Integrity/Dignity
Every person has integrity solely by virtue of having
been created and is offered the concomitant respect
and dignity. Article 1 of the Universal Declaration
of Human Rights states, “All human beings are born
free and equal in dignity and rights. They are endowed
with reason and conscience and should act towards
one another in a spirit of brotherhood.” THE DOORWAY’s first principle is in concordance with such
a truism, and this is fundamental for an organization
that seeks to preserve basic and yet universal standards
of morality, while enhancing the lives of young people.
Life is such that things
do not always work
Despite the best intentions and efforts of anyone, there is no such thing as
a guarantee of success. Nevertheless, what is more important is the opportunity
to discover why something did not work and then seek success another way. Without
entering into an excessively philosophical debate between free will and determinism,
it can be presumed that one’s choices are often constrained and limited by factors
which one has no influence over. Therefore, THE DOORWAY’s second principle
addresses a question that is most important, in that it (1) understands that
people may be compelled to make a decision due to circumstance, and (2) seeks
to help participants come up with an alternative approach to reach their goal.
Acceptance without judgment
or prejudice
In keeping with the principle of integrity and dignity, we accept people as they
are. We see the human person first and behavior as an aspect of the life of the
person. Accepting rather than judging is essential, as it reverses an attitude
that has been responsible for many of the wrongs which human beings have done
to one another throughout history, often at great human cost.
Forgiveness – Every day is a new day
In the context of THE DOORWAY, forgiveness is the
ability to pick oneself up and to start over time
and time again. Forgiving is perhaps the trait which
people have had the greatest difficulty with, despite
clear indications that revenge merely generates more
harmful behavior.
People
who listen to each other learn from each other
When we truly listen to others, we engage each other
in a process that allows us all to benefit from new
perspectives and clarification of previous ideas.
Transmitting information from an individual to another
is a complex process. Often, part of a message can
be misunderstood. This is most obvious in cross-cultural
situations, such as when someone from a street culture
is attempting to communicate with someone from a
non-street culture. Listening carefully is thus fundamental
if THE DOORWAY is to succeed in perceiving problems
correctly, and devising effective responses.
All actions/choices
affect other people
Every person is interdependent and interconnected.
Consequences of actions and choices are never limited
to the person that made the initial decision. Therefore,
every person matters because of our interdependency.
This principle relates to the second, as it shows
understanding that actions and choices are often
the consequence of situations, which are determined
by others. |